tulisan yang akan selalu aku salin setiap kali aku berusaha menjelaskan tentang diriku sendiri ke orang yang committed to miss-understanding me. semoga taun ini tahun terakhir lah, ya, aku nyalin-nyalin quote ini. plis lah ah, bismillah.
"this is why you struggle with self-love. because you're constantly putting yourself in a position you'll be seen as more valuable. YOU ARE VALUABLE SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU EXIST. and for that reason, love, YOU DESERVE TO BE HEARD. feel that. and if you can't, it's because you have to keep disconnecting from yourself in order to defend your position with people who are committed to miss-understanding you.
when you entertain their drama, you validate their position & thus that you are not worthy of standing ten toes deep on yours. FALL BACK AND LEARN TO SAY OK, instead of writing that long paragraph or going on yet another diatribe. they often know the truth, but know that you will allow them to question it.
WE ARE NOT DOING THIS ANYMORE."
@lovingmeafterwe
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